Communication in relationships.

Nah. It's kinda like a fortune cookie. Short and sweet.

I figured Q would appreciate a rant on my end being like a sentence long. >.>

haha relationships! Talking things out. IT gets you called every name in the book.

yes, talk things out :3

it be important :3

^ Very. ^^

I, myself, like talking things out. Especially in person.

Gives me a better chance at throwing things at the individual.

xD Whatever works for you, KKQ.

lol I'm not really the one to react but that really depends if that person is willing to be accepting in every way. :P talking things out wont work out if the other person is so close-minded

Reacting can be anything. Even if it's negotiations. xP

In either case... if they're so close minded, I'd be considering whether or not I'd actually enjoy spending time with them, but that's just me. xP

so you talk. you are misunderstood no matter how much you explained. then?
it's no different not talking then.

If you're misunderstood even after, there's a problem down the line somewhere. Either someone has a hard time explaining, or another has a hard time listening.

Kai wrote:lol I'm not really the one to react but that really depends if that person is willing to be accepting in every way. :P talking things out wont work out if the other person is so close-minded

Or stubborn.
You can talk for HOURSSS at a person but if they refuse to budge on how they feel? It's a waste.

KarateKeyaQ wrote:

Kai wrote:lol I'm not really the one to react but that really depends if that person is willing to be accepting in every way. :P talking things out wont work out if the other person is so close-minded

Or stubborn.
You can talk for HOURSSS at a person but if they refuse to budge on how they feel? It's a waste.

Talking will solve a problem unless someone is;
1. Bad at listening.
2. Bad at talking.
3. All of the above.

But, if someone is so closeminded they refuse to listen to anything on a relationship basis (be it romantic, frienship, etc...), then I would ponder, whether or not you'd actually stick with said person.

Honestly, why bother staying with someone who, for example, had a misunderstanding of a situation, refused to listen, and then held a grudge. Sure, people lie through their teeth, but you should at least listen before deciding.

Talking cannot always solve a problem. Some things are just unsolvable.

Everything is solvable, just depends on the willingness to solve it.

On another note, I swear the title for this just read, "Communism in relationships." Lovely. Too lazy today.

We're gonna have to agree to disagree on that one ^^

Bakura wrote:

KarateKeyaQ wrote:

Kai wrote:lol I'm not really the one to react but that really depends if that person is willing to be accepting in every way. :P talking things out wont work out if the other person is so close-minded

Or stubborn.
You can talk for HOURSSS at a person but if they refuse to budge on how they feel? It's a waste.

Talking will solve a problem unless someone is;
1. Bad at listening.
2. Bad at talking.
3. All of the above.

But, if someone is so closeminded they refuse to listen to anything on a relationship basis (be it romantic, frienship, etc...), then I would ponder, whether or not you'd actually stick with said person.

Honestly, why bother staying with someone who, for example, had a misunderstanding of a situation, refused to listen, and then held a grudge. Sure, people lie through their teeth, but you should at least listen before deciding.

I'm both bad at talking and listening. I use neither to solve a vast majority of my problems.

Talking helps, but action solves.

Talking helps, but action solves.

this. agree with keya.